They will want to be told constantly that they are pretty.
They will constantly put down other women and demand that you agree or else.
I do have confidence in my thoughts, feelings and beliefs: a confidence in the beliefs I form that is above the confidence I could have in any that are suggested to me.
I suspect that perhaps it really is impossible for the self to know itself. It is said by some that for an individual to talk about, explain, understand or judge oneself is linguistically impossible, since it requires the self to understand its self.
they invested in themselves rather then in a dresser full of Marykay makeup or the latest 0 purse. I am generalizing and leaving out women that have been emotionally or physically abused. I think the women with low self esteem are the ones that are always demanding attention/validation/compliments.
Its these GND, that normally exuude self confidence and bloom when they are in their element and dont need to be "used" by the next jock that comes along in order to feel fulfilled. They might not be able to leave the house without full make-up and hair.
I'd not want to help someone for my own need but to be sure that what i do is actually helping someone.
I think in time the way we look at self esteem will change.
Thus, if actions arise so that the self attempts self-explanation, confusion may well occur within linguistic mental pathways and processes.
I constantly think about my actions and the things i do and feel so small in comparison to the needs of the world.
This doesn't change who i am as a person or make me less of a person it makes me thoughtful.
What is considered to be healthy self esteem can be emulated by those who are not healthy at all.
being successful in business or a high position in some company doesn't mean someone has a good sense of self at all, they could be sociopaths and psychopaths.
But the part of me that is seeing this is still me: the judgement comes from a part of me that considers itself able to look down on another part of me.