It must just be a twinkle ;)” Tip: If you want to hit on someone, you can’t let them know you’re hitting on them. What I mean is you shouldn’t go all out, guns blazing on the first date. People like unwrapping presents so make sure your personality is like a present.Put it this way: If you wanted to scare someone, would you go up to them 5 minutes before and say “Hey, guess what? When you first meet someone, don’t splurge and tell them you can cook French food,break-dance and give great oral sex! It’s much sexier when you find out about someone’s hidden talents and abilities later on in the relationship.It keeps things fresh and makes them wonder “what else is under his/her sleeve?” You gotta warm them up first before you let them have the full hard on!
Rule #2: Pay Attention to Red Flags Like those internal alarms that alert you to your gut feelings, you also have an alarm system to alert you to red flags. As a result, we often ignore red flags and find ourselves getting involved with inappropriate partners because we’re not paying attention.Maybe they’re attentive and chivalrous to you, but treat the waiter, bartender, and/or valet poorly.Or maybe they claim they’re ready for a long-term relationship, but their wandering eye tells you otherwise.Your job is to pay attention to that red flag and not pursue them.Rule #3: Actions Speak Louder Than Words During the course of your dating life you will most likely find yourself on a date with someone whose actions speak much louder than their words.
To get the most out of your dating life, it’s important to understand that actions speak louder than words.