Although I have dated a few guys without kids, but it usually ends becuase they can't handle being second fiddle in my life....
Having a number of relationships in the past two years would indicate that you don't have an issue with quantity, but more of compatible quality.
But i got to admit what time i have left over i put into relationships and its usually me going hey i have time available on this day at this time... plan weeks in advance cause well i usually date single moms with children and one has to do this SMILE to have a relationship with the busy schedules!
Its usually me saying that wow we have to make more time for "us" and its the girl saying hey are you crazy... i still have all my family, friends, and non-children time to party... needless to say i am happy i find this out early on and have only lost a few months of my life!!
Hey if the woman interested in you will be thankful if you like to spend time with her and all the children.
Although, it is important to have adult time too - one to 2 nights a week work really well.
When my boys are home with me they come before anyone else including myself!!!
I work two jobs sometimes more to pay for my ex to sit at home so i don't have a lot of time left over for socializing or for babysitters!!
There were/are/is no alternate weekends, no free summers, etc., ... After one or two dates of seeming potential and if you are actually searching for a long term relationship, take everyone to a park, beach, nature trail, out for pizza, shopping, etc.; as an alternative to having a babysitter.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... And the days that I don't have my girls I want to do for myself and that doesn't always include that someone special.
I today's society we b1tch that we never have any time, when the truth is we have more time than ever before.
People need to relax, prioritize, communicate and connect.
So it can and does happen, just be patient, the right girl will come along who can handle the whole package.