If you plan a full extravagant evening with a guy you have never met, you will regret it if he looks nothing like his photos, you have zero chemistry and the conversation is like watching your toe nails dry! Again, remember what my man, Steve Harvey, says about guys who “get the cookie” too soon!
I made a lot of mistakes online dating many years ago when I started and definitely learned the hard way! Okay, you’re an adult and if you want it, go for it…BUT, know that when things happen too quickly, they usually end quickly too!
Often, men would respond with some nasty, cutting remark like, “You look like a short slut with big tits anyway!
Ladies, I am here to support and guide you, so I don’t want you giving up the cookie, having him not call, then drowning yourself in cronuts!
(That’s assuming he actually asks her out or even uses the word “date” in a sentence). I distinctly remember how angry my mom would get when flirty junior high girls called to talk to my cute 7th grade brother.
It’s apparently much easier to see if she wants to “hang out,” which leaves so much room for interpretation, and inevitably lead to an exasperated girl finally asking the guy, “So are we just ‘hanging out’ or is this a date? She’d give them a short dating etiquette lesson that ended with her abruptly hanging up the phone.
Fellas, it’s time to man up and actually use the word “date.” Make your intentions clear from the beginning.
If you like a girl, tell her that you like her and want to go on a date.
Rule 3: Hell, don’t date current coworkers, clients, donors, board members, auditors, and volunteers.