So if you’re only seeking women in the 21-29 age range, let me tell you, you’re missing out. And by that I mean: her own career, her own friends, her own apartment, her own money.
I am not the type to waste time in a relationship that I isn't going anywhere. Maybe start off as friends and get to know each other more. When I was 25 and living in NYC, I dated a man who was 43.
Believe me though, if you want to be around a woman who actually will do anything constructive for you (emotionally and maybe physically) then you need to be with a woman who is, indeed, a woman.
Don't waste your time or emotional health chasing anything you are old enough to be a Father to.
Given that we didn’t suckle at that digital teat so early on like Millennials, we’re not going to live and die by whether we change our relationship status. Get this: I’m not even FB friends with the guy I’m currently seeing. I did get a glimpse of his page when he left it open one day, and I did take a gander at his ex, but I found it so stressful that I closed out of it immediately. If she’s gotten this far on her own, regardless of whatever relationships are behind her, she’s been through enough ups and downs to know she can handle just about anything.
And she knows she won’t fall into a million pieces if she doesn’t have a boyfriend. And whereas younger women are putting you through the paces to see if you can provide her with a life, an identity, and a future, an older woman already knows who she is and what she wants to do—she’d just love someone to share it with.
A slightly more mature lady has friends—but she sure as shit doesn’t need their permission to live her life.